I dont think you can figure out a way to communicate suitable for you. Anyway, do what you are c
apable and let it go if it is out of your ability. Good luck。。。。。。

You can try to figure out. No one really know who you are here!!!

我都想翻白眼了。怎么都是无声无息的？！你这么沉默，难怪觉得有压力和危机呢？！释放压力很重要啊....
...

看来你需要的不是交流........

最近其实很累，开始特别着迷听周杰伦的歌。我做什么事情都很容易obsessive。前一段看“新大秦帝国“，
特别着迷商鞅，引为千古知音。还因此失落了一阵子。此所谓”借代而生“.....

你有两个孩子吧？我有一个女儿，我也特别着迷我的女儿。在她刚出生的时候，有很多期望；现在没有了，我
觉得她想做什么就做什么吧，人生，是她自己的。我只是负责让她成为生命的强者。她也是我的知音，我喜欢
和她一起吟诗作画，感悟人生。

智商对于人的一生而言是不足够的，可惜很多中国人不懂得......

Haha, when you are young, you have no capacity to take responsibilities and too early to realize
 expectations; when you are old, you lose the capacity to take responsibilities and realize expe
ctations. So, perhaps you can see mid-life crisis from an opposite perspective, age about 40 is 
the golden time for one to take responsibilities and realize expectations. When you miss the gol
den time, you will lose the only opportunity as a human being to take responsibilities and reali
ze all the expectations from your parents, your family and yourself. 
However, if the responsibilities and expectations are really things you cannot handle, give them
 up. I like to push myself, and I can feel the painful happiness from pushing myself to the limi
t. I push myself to depression, but I also pull myself out of depression. I feel pain, then happ
iness. When I feel painful, i am really painful; when I feel happy, I am really happy. I cannot 
bear monotonic life. Maybe...
If you'd like, you can share with me more detailed responsibilities and expectations to let me t
ell whether they are too much, though there is no  clear cut-off. 
Best

@dianna2008: My depression is from many places, not only work. I started to understand why they 
call "mid-life crisis". Not early life, not late life. It's difficult being 40, with all the res
ponsibilities and expectations. 

You can let me know where your depression is from. I do feel depressed sometimes, mainly from re
search. I love research but research gives me much pressure when the results are not good. I sti
ll love it but it depressed me sometimes. It is normal, I know. So how about yours?

I wont stay here online. You can leave messages. I will when I feel no one to talk. I will respo
nd if I have some words. 

Honesty is good.

I like to chat, but not friend and soulmate. Soulmate is kind of painful. I feel depressed somet
imes. I can understand the feeling. I dont know how to contact since it is hard to leave phone n
umber or email address here. 

@天暖和: 有兴趣联系一下么？你注册的时候有没有填email? 我可以升级，然后给你发 email.